Down The Divorce Road

[markhaving probs]

I learnt this week my W is now seeing somebody officially. When I went through her bank statements during the declaration of assets form filling, I checked her cell phone bills for the times we were on holiday. I feel as low as I have ever been.

I was shocked to see one monthly bill was £147 during our skiing holiday, and the first summer holiday without me was £210. She was clearly in touch with OM then, which means it has been going on for around a year.

I should have known something was wrong, but I never noticed anything out of the ordinary. I know I have been in denial but it does not make this any easier.

What I cannot understand is why she is so angry with ME, hurtful texts, saying I was a terrible lover, not supportive, not even wanting me to have a decent divorce settlement so I can re-build my life and the childrens.

You would think I asked for the divorce. I never womanised, drank or was physical with her, all I tried to do was the best for my W and family.

Does anybody have any thoughts on why she is behaving like this?