New here but have been a voyeur

[pearlharbr]

I think most, if not all, of us who are piecing have the same list of fears/apprehensions about the piecing process. I know I still do and I'm almost a year into it. Talking to an IC and reading about recovery after an affair are good tools to help you figure out what you want.

In the end, for me, it came down to wanting to know that I did everything possible before I walked away. And I did think that I would end up walking away because I didn't believe BF would be willing to do what I needed. We're still working on it.