She does mention this throughout the book in places ,but no it never made the top five here...
ANd I woudl bet it woudl DEPEND
I would THINK she would tell you if your SPOUSE wants to tell you about how she or he has been feeling, she would likely tell you to LISTEN and let him rip... but I also bet she would say that you let it go if he doesn't want to talk anymore...
Basically you just let what they want to say be, and otherwise you back off
