Yes no need to beat yourself up. We have all been there. Based on my own experiences zipping the lips is better when you are heated and angry.

We know how they can push our buttons, but remember to step back from the fire or you might get burned.

Your h is not thinking clearly right now, so what he is doing is in ow's best interest not yours or the business. He is thinking for himself right now, not for the business or you. Keep that in mind.

Exactly your nerves are shot, so don't add more to them!

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"