I admit. The loneliness is setting in now. Only a week left of this and then I start my job.
<sigh>
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Been wondering how you are and where your mind is at these days. Hope its in a forward progression!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
So Saturday I had told W I was taking dance lessons that night and she was welcomed to join since she wouldn't have the kids that night. She didn't show and I didn't expect her to.
Today we are IMing a bit because she and D8 were sick yesterday and just chatting about a few different things.
Then she says the following...
"i wanted to say thank you for the invite to the lesson for saturday night. meant a lot. i'd like us to be friends. just takes some time."
I said back, "np. agreed"
I realize this doesn't say M or business only. I wasn't quite sure how to respond so that is how I responded.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
I really like the invite, and the IM. Friendship is always where it starts, in any relationship or marriage. She's testing the waters a bit, and it sounds like you handled it very well. You sound good man.
After catching up on this thread, I'm going to do some situps! While unemployed I was working out all the time and down to 206. Now I have plenty of money but I'm back to 224. Hard to be both! W's family is all extremely overweight but also rich. LOL.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I am ordering a pizza tonight. How many situps does that require? There will be pepperoni on the pizza. But it is a thin and crispy pizza. lol.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Been wondering how you are and where your mind is at these days. Hope its in a forward progression!!
I had a good weekend. Went dancing a couple of times. I am having a bit of trouble focusing this week and I am ready to just get back to work. But all in all, I am doing ok.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Glad you are doing well. I bet work will really help your mind move forward as you will be so busy.
Dancing huh?
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!