What if my girlfriend thought I was not as 'loving' as she thought I could be - by going dark - does this imply 'more of the same'? Even though she did request space?
Most of what you will be told by the board will sound like something opposite from what you feel you should do. If you worry about how she's going to react or what she's going to think.....then you will fail at this. First thing....don't fear how she will respond. The girl wants space, so go dark. You don't worry what she may be thinking. You don't want to be all lovie-dovie with a person who doesn't want you around.
Fear will be your number one enemy. When you become self convident and like the man you are, then she will be attracted to you. Right now, you are not that person, and that's what you need to get your focus on.......instead of "her".
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
