April 2009 Discover she is still seeing the OM. We seperate. She continues to see the OM. I went through personal Hell as you can imagine. Who is this Women. May 2009 I go limited contact in order to heal. She wants to be friends. She loves me but is not in love with me. I healed well. August she signs up on match.com I later find out to get over the other man. She does not file for divorce nor do I. We just live our lives seperately. We are friendly joke etc. October 2009 I later find out she is still in and out of the affair and I FINALLY expose the A to the OM's W. The affair dies instantly. The true colors of the OM comes out and my W is in heavy withdrawal.
December 2009 I send her a letter stating that if she wants to continue dating or do match.com I have no interest in being a family for Christmas and in fact I have no interest in being anything with her. She dumps a guy she was dating and drops match.com
It is really all so very simple. Not easy, by any means, but SIMPLE. The basic laws of human attraction, immutable forces, and they work nearly every time.
Why can't people see???
Folks, there are THINGS THAT WORK, and THINGS THAT DON'T. Yes, it's damned hard work after that, but these are the immutable starting points.
