I have access to his account online. He continues to tell me he isn't contacting her and its over. Of course I can't believe him so I check in every few days or so. His relationship with her has been strictly phone and computer since she lives in Canada. So I guess on that point I have it a litlle easier than others.
first, no wonder you are checking! very good- does he know yet that you know he is lying?
second, you do NOT have it easier! emotional affairs are just as damaging!
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On one hand I am happy to see him making contact and I understand it is baby steps but I'm also at the point were unless he wants to talk about the marriage, divorce or the kids I don't have anything else to say.
this is so good- I mean you are at the perfect point to do NC!
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I still do want my marriage to work so if that means listening to the other crap for awhile longer I will. At least its a start so we will se but I'm also not expecting anything more at this point.
No I think you should not talk about other crap...I am going to try to send a couple helpful vets over to your thread but here is an excellent thread I think for your sitch because her H won't admit his EA and she is doing no contact. Wade through toward the end and find the excellent NC letter !: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1924132#Post1924132
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
