I wrote my last post earlier today...and just need to agree with the latest posts from everyone. Do not try to come up with reasons for making contact. I start feeling antsy after a few days as well...but you will NOT feel better after initiating contact. Been there..done that. Let him pursue you. He IS thinking of you in some capacity. When you have the urge to make contact...challenge yourself. Tell yourself that contacting him is an addiction...you don't want to give in to it. If you divert your attention to something else...the craving to contact him subsides. You will wake up tomorrow feeling better. I always have a hard time at night..done with work and sitting in the house we share. Concentrate on ANYTHING else and start creating a routine outside of what you and your H used to do..perhaps start watching a new tv series, grab a magazine on the way home, blog...but just don't sit there and come up with reasons to make contact.
