MLC, H and me

[courageous wife]

I have a question for anyone! Ran into my neighbor today at the post office. She has emailed me a couple of times asking what she can do to help, or if I want to talk or whatever to call her. She is the one whose H went thru his own MLC about 10yrs ago. They are very respected people in our town, very active in the Catholic Church, very giving to the community and she also went thru breast cancer last year! So, she said that her and her H have talked wondering if they should reach out to my H and try to talk to him....I told her I just didn't know if it would help. My H does respect both them a lot...I cannot control whatever they decide to do but could discourage them if I needed to...

Went to parent/teacher conferences tonight and am discouraged! I really had to control myself to not break down in front of S14 when I got home talking to him about his grades...thinking the ADD meds are not working yet! He is going to have to pull it out next quarter if he wants to move on to the next grade! It just sucks that I have to deal with this myself, and who am I kidding because all H would do is yell and threaten anyway, so I would still deal with it myself but wish to have the support! Just venting!!!