Done.Finito.Finished.

[kara]

Mind

I am OPPOSED to any type of dancing that turns into gym exercise. I think dancing should be dancing and gym stuff should be gym stuff. I don't know WHY I feel like this. I just do...

When I said that I was letting Mr. K work on Mr. K ,I meant that he is slowly showing signs of becoming the 'old" Mr.K. It is a process and I just meant that as I focus on myself and do my work, I take the focus and pressure off him and allow him to do his work. We do spend a lot more time together than before.

I STILL have to get into the alt. I tried before but it was taking a minute so I gave up. I WILL get there, though.

[chatterbug]

spring means spring dresses

[avermont]

Wow, Kara, what an inspiring list.

yeah, you don't really pass out from the hysterical crying. And the headache hurts and the eyes look terrible.

I can only hope I can begin to approach where you are. You sound like a terrifically fun person to be around--and it seems Mr. K is realizing it?

Keep posting these uplifting posts!

[flowmom]

Kara, I just love your sig line . And your lists are great.

It sounds like you're optimistic about your sitch...that's so great to read. Any time you want to write more details, I'm sure you'll have many avid readers

[mindfull]

Kara Kara.... Oh, No... let your story grow...
YeaYeayeaYeayayayayaya

[courageous wife]

Kara- I haven't checked up on you for a long time and loved reading your list!!! Awesome post! You go girl!

[kara]

Hi there

Thanks for dropping by Flo, Mind, CW.

There is not much of an update. Or is there? It feels as if things move forward at an incremental pace but I am okay with that (most of the time). Things are moving forward and that is the important part.

I can recognize Mr. K now. I can recognize the sound of his voice and the look in his eyes. It is a lot like normal. It is familiar and what I used to know. And it is as simple and as complex as that. I feel that he is seeing me again and I am seeing him. He sounds like himself and he looks like himself.

I am in a good place physically, mentally and spiritually. I think I have my stuff together. I am still discovering a lot about myself. My Simple Plan is to keep on my path. It is a good one for me. It may not be for everyone but I am not everyone .

I let Mr. K free and that is not to say that I stood by wringing my hands and acting like a doormat. I prefer to think that I conducted myself with quiet strength, accepted where I was and found my joy nonetheless. I did do tough love and I did draw my boundaries and then I DID ME. I went with what I felt I needed to do and took everything else out of the equation.

I decided to live life like I believed that Jesus had my back and like I was truly blessed. I turned up my happy. I got giddy and delerious with my life. And I got sexy back. And somebody seems to have noticed

[rockedworld]

You most certainly are not everybody... you ROCK a simple plan like nobody else.

Thanks for the update.... was wondering about you....

Are you in the alt yet?

[motherof3]

Thanks for the update, Kara. I was wondering about you.

You sound like you are in a great place. Keep it up.

[flowmom]

I decided to live life like I believed that Jesus had my back and like I was truly blessed. I turned up my happy. I got giddy and delerious with my life. And I got sexy back. And somebody seems to have noticed

I'll bet. That's a great mindset to adopt...and it's great that you're seeing PROGRESS! We're cheering you on from the sidelines...