How do I act?

[Cautious]

Good luck meg! And good for you for getting the phone coaching! That definitely helps. Unfortunately, I can't afford that luxury. Don't forget we're here to be your cheerleaders also.

Let me touch on a point for a second about something you asked about in an earlier post: GAL. He EXPECTS you to be sad, pathetic, crumpled in a ball without him. He does NOT expect you to be GALing. When you GAL, you're happy, smiling when you're around him. Distracted by other things. He's not expecting this, so it will make him wonder what you're up to. The main thing here is to KEEP BUSY. It helps to keep your mood up and make him curious. That's why it works.