LFW, thank you. I'm little calmer now then I was in the morning. I still can't understand how My WH could think that this free work stuff for the OW is OK....but what can I say... it's not him I'm dealing with now - it's his alter ego... I will take my time to think through my "plan of action" on the subject

BTW I've read your sitch LFW, not all of it yet, there is so much. I'm slowly trying to get to know everyone that talks to me smile

My GAL plan for this week

1) Shopping theraphy - cheaper then a psychiatrist
2) Meeting with my Divorce/Separation support group
3) Go for drinks with my female friend
4) Look at houses for sale to see what's out there (proactive)
5) Try new gym - synergy class
6) Plan a little 3-day getaway for me and D16 (1st without WH)

Last edited by Mila; 03/10/10 02:02 AM.

M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO