Hmmm.......don't know if I can go against my nature. If someone else had asked these things of me, I would have obliged. I didn't want him to miss seeing his kids performances. I guess I don't get this. This must be why I am not so good at this.
I spaced off the fact that I had to go out of town for training today. Had to leave last night and be gone overnight. I wasn't too concerned, since it was H's night---and hadn't told him in advance. I sent him TM telling him I was on my way out of town. He replied with something about D13 still being at home and was he going to have to feed her after S11's baseball practice???......honestly, this was a bit too far for me. D13 told me a few weeks ago that he expected me to feed her when he was with S11 at ball practice----which I was happy to do since she was with me during practice (thought it a bit much that he told her to tell me.....but, typical). Don't quite know what S11 does for dinner, and why he can't feed them at the same time. Last night I responded and told him to tell her to eat before he picked her up. (She is old enough to fix herself something to eat.)
Home again. It was a good trip. Can't say I learned much, because I think I'm only more confused.......
Me 45 M 25 yrs; T 31 yrs;bomb 8/15/06; moves out 7/18/08 D 18, D 14, S 12