Another thing I forgot to mention. It's his dad's 70 bday party on Sat and my H asked me if I was going. I said NO, and he was annoyed. What the hell does he expect me to do, come to all the family parties.
Oh, and to answer that question...
YES, he DOES
He wants to LIE, CHEAT, and ABANDON his family with NO CONSEQUENCES
Affairs (or what's left of his, i think you have done a godo job of making his nice little fantasy quite a mess at this point) are about fantaties, NOT reality.
In his fantasy world, he has his lover, YOU are his best friend, his family loves him, and his entire family think he's the cats ass...
This IS where his HEAD is at.. seriously.. and when YOU challenge that, it UPSETS him... so he shuts you out.
