How do you expect to maintain no contact if you take invites to birthday parties?
Anyhow, i think you know where we are at on this one.. no point in saying much more than what's already said
NOTE : If you haev ANY CONTACT with H at this point you UNDO all teh work your friend did to setup no contact for you... you hurt your FRIEND when you break no contact at this point.. stick to it.. ZERO replies to phone, email, text, etc