He is coming to the house for his visits, and I am leaving. It's a nice break for me and gets me a chance to get homework done.

He goes to my friends house when he talks with her. And I usually go stay with her, when my H is visiting the kids.

Another thing I forgot to mention. It's his dad's 70 bday party on Sat and my H asked me if I was going. I said NO, and he was annoyed. What the hell does he expect me to do, come to all the family parties.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10