still separated, in limbo, still hopeful

[newmama]

I am proud of myself because WH just sent me some long texts about S and checking in on him. I DID ASK WH if he was feeling better (it is my style). But he replied and then I SAID "Sounds like you are healing quickly! OK see you tomorrow!" meaning I ended our text conversation first! He replied and said "you guys have a good night!"

You need to understand that because he has been pretty verbose with his texts, it's like someone waving a freshly baked chocolate chunk brownie under your nose...so it is very challenging for me to resist replying with a bunch of details and encouraging the exchange of communication! So saying goodbye first was a big deal for me!