My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[awest1217]

Don't do anything to get to H. You need to switch focus from H to you. If you want to switch because Verizon is better for you then do it. If you are doing it to get to H don't. It is very hard to do, but you really need to think about you. Do stuff for you and not because it will get to H or anything else. Focus on you.

Also good job not contacting him. It is hard to do, but really it is for the best.