And the other truth dart you can throw at your wife if she says "it was jus ttalk"

YOU : If you were just talking, you wouldn't need to do it in secret AND you wouldn't need to LIE to me about where you were going...

Your wife likley wont have anything to respond to that

YOU : I will not lie to you about who I talk to, or who I am with, I will keep NO SECRETS from you.. you are my wife and deserve respect, not lies.

YOU : If it was just talk, I would'nt have OMW calling me. Someone got HURT.