4luv, WH and I are not back together so the NC didn't achieve that effect.I have my theories as to why. HOWEVER it did make him reach out more. He would come to the house when I wasn't there and do stuff (yard work, vacuum, garbage, etc. since I was big and pregnant) and leave me written notes. I don't think I ever wrote back.
So I feel like that showed me he would have a hard time letting go of me BUT it wasn't enough to miss me enough to want to come back. And then obviously he brought up divorce 2 more times since S was born so to me it showed me he was willing to part with me.
At this point, I am starting to wonder if he misses me. Hmmm. But he is still with OW. shrug! (that is my mantra)
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
