ok, it has almost been 72 hours and not one peep from the husband. I am contemplating sending him a nice email letting him know various thoughts of why I haven't contacted him.
For example: I am taking time to work on myself
I need time to think about our marriage and all that has happened
I've been thinking about how you said you think we need a divorce and I am sorry you feel that way.
I want to know what others think? I'm guessing this might be labelled "pursuing". Should I just continue to go on with my life and act like I could care less?
I am also contemplating switching my cell phone back to Verizon. Two months ago, the husband switched from our family plan with Verizon to an individual plan with AT&T. I too switched to AT&T and got my own individual plan. I know I shouldn't have, but he was acting as if he was going to work on the marriage. However, I think by switching back I am making a point.... Any thoughts?
I am just so frustrated still. I want our marriage to work however, both of us have to want it.
Don't do it! Don't give in! I know it's KILLING you.Sheet, it kills me to do it but reading all of your and everyone on here's responses has helped me soo much. I'm the suffer in silence type and this board has helped me so much. I just need to vent more on here rather than bottling it all up because all I end up doing is breaking down and giving into my H.
Leave your phone bill alone.. What good will it do? I know that you want to do SOMETHING to initiate some sort of contact/open up communication with him.. But try and not do it.. You've done so well so far, you know?
M: 32 H: 34 S:5 D: 3 D: 1 Together 11 years Married 7 Bomb: PA/EA 8/13/09 (for 1 year on and off) ILYBINILWY: 08/09
"The end of suffering happens with the end of wanting." -Laura Munson
