I agree w/ Allen that theire proximity to oneanother and common drama/shaming may tempt them w/ another "common bond" so to speak.
It was good that you had the opportunity to listen and share- be used to that sort of testing/script/baiting when those opportunities arise.
You handled it well and I agree w/ Lotus that her taking an interest in your phone is a good thing.
Keep on guard and also like Lotus said- enjoy the times you do have that will be comfortable and peaceful...do not react when the temperature changes, just know that it will and act accordingly- and be consistant
