hm,
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama
I'm not saying that because I'm bitter, but it illustrates what happens when we continually defer our happiness for that of someone else--who doesn't deserve the sacrifice
I understand.
And of course having a D14 limits the options on writing your next chapter...somewhat. Keep in mind, though, that she will be watching you write it.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac