My husband is addicted to an emotional affair

[nicole8]

ok, it has almost been 72 hours and not one peep from the husband. I am contemplating sending him a nice email letting him know various thoughts of why I haven't contacted him.

For example:
I am taking time to work on myself

I need time to think about our marriage and all that has happened

I've been thinking about how you said you think we need a divorce and I am sorry you feel that way.

I want to know what others think? I'm guessing this might be labelled "pursuing". Should I just continue to go on with my life and act like I could care less?

I am also contemplating switching my cell phone back to Verizon. Two months ago, the husband switched from our family plan with Verizon to an individual plan with AT&T. I too switched to AT&T and got my own individual plan. I know I shouldn't have, but he was acting as if he was going to work on the marriage. However, I think by switching back I am making a point.... Any thoughts?

I am just so frustrated still. I want our marriage to work however, both of us have to want it.