Well, that is all very amusing. Good for you for having the talk. So that cleared the air some.
Yes, forgiveness is a two-way street. She must forgive and you must forgive the things that have happened here, and even further in the past. It is a lot to do and it is not easy. I'm sure she does feel that she can never forgive you for embarrassing her, but time does heal wounds, and this will lessen as time goes on. I recommend letting it rest for now. Perhaps the two of you can agree to be nice to each other so that new hostilities don't make things worse.
OM is going to heal his marriage. So he is most likely out of the picture. Your wife is not so uncaring about you as she would like you to believe, or she wouldn't be worried about your phone. Take it as a compliment!
Try to be your good-natured, nice self with her. Ask her to try to be nice to you. Let life go back to normal as much as possible.
