I have no desire to talk or see him today, I haven't felt this way for a long time. I know in a couple days when my anger and sadness subside, I will have the urge to contact him, but I know I need to be strong.
He is going over to my friends again on Wed. However, she is not real happy about it, she is just really mad at him. She knows he is lying to her too, and that makes her mad. The funny thing about her, is she has been through this. Her and her current H were married for 9 years then got D for 4 years, and are now happily remarried. Her sitch was that her H just up and left one weekend and never came back, and had a girlfriend within in a week of leaving. She begged for him to come back and did all that. And it wasn't until she let go, that he started contacting her all the time. Anyway my point is that both my friend and her H have told my H that he will regret his decision to D, and have tried to give him hope. That is where his lying comes into play. Telling them he does love me and doesn't want a D, but I'm to controlling and will never change. And when they try to bring up the OW, he denies and changes the subject.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10
