It's not over.

Setbacks happen.. its up and down.. that's why we reccomend protection phase in the first place, it takes you OUT of that nightmare into a mroe stable environment

You just keep sending that letter out so your husband keeps hearing that message...

Get your uncle to call your H again and give him a hard time

Imagine him getting THIRTY PEOPLE calling him like your uncle did?

He would have caved a long time ago then...

Apply as much pressure as possible.. this letter is just that much more pressure on him

He needs to know he is HARMING his children when he cheats, and he's harming his children when he divorces

I suspect he knows this, and that's why this is so hard for him.

You are protecting yoru children from this drama.. tha'ts a GOOD thing for you right now.. your children feed off YOUR ENERGY. if its negative from interacting with H then your children live that too.. its not good for them ether.