Sigh. Message from W delivered via D11. Apparently D11 was asking W again about us and W told her she's happier without me. W told her she was only stressed the last few weeks because of the play.
W told D11 sometimes one person loves another person more than the other. Funny, the first few years of the M I kind of took W for granted because I thought she loved me more than I loved her then it gradually turned around.
Anyway, D11 told me I should just give up and find the right woman for me. She looked really sad.
She said the "only thing" that makes W sad is how hard this is on D11 and D7.
How it came up was I was dropping the girls off and we were talking about how many nights they are with me and I said I'm hoping for 50/50. D7 then said "what about when you and mom get back together?" That's what triggered things for D11. She's really down about this.
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