It is so hard not to get upset when OW confronts you in a bar. Telling me I am the reason my d12 won't see her dad. That the reason H hasn't file for divorce is because he can't afford it. I freaked out at him, cried, hysterical. I was very proud for how I handled myself with her. She is now lying about things my d12 is saying to get my H further on her side. My H has been out of the house for 6 weeks. 3 weeks we were working on things, or so I thought. They'd been talking for a month before he moved out. AND now she has to fight to keep him? She called him right in front of me as if they'd been together for years! Tell me again how to handle this? Because I don't know if I can keep this up. He went right from my house to hers Sunday night after all this happened. Parked his car a block away. I called him, he lied said he was at home. He keeps saying he knows what he is doing is wrong, but he needs to do things his way. I said are we just done, is this it, he said no, I need to clear my head and do things my way for once....again, he goes right to her house after this. How can my own H do this to me and to our children? And why should I hang on to a man who does this? What should I do?
Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option.
