I gotta run but you are not in a bad place.

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The other day she said if we do decide to reconcile she wants to do it the "right" way and start by dating. (Is that where a recon starts????)


Stage One - lose negative feelings

Stage Two - become friends again

Stage Three- rekindle romance

Stage Four- recommit to marriage, build the marraige you both want.

So dating is a great place to be especially since your wife asked. Keep reading on here. Post to get answers.

Cheers

M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12
Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.