Anger is a defense mechanism. She is currently in self preservation mode. In order to keep herself from feeling the pain, she has to be angry. She surrounds herself with friends that will support her in the path she chose because it makes her feel justified. You can't reason with her anger. You can't make her realize how good she had it with you. Only she can make those decisions and it's going to take some time.

Time to saddle in and good luck!


Me: 26
Ex: 27
Son: 5

Divorced: 3/2010
Each day is another opportunity to do it right.