When you first find yourself here.

[Jack_Three_Beans]

I meant boundaries with the OP.

Specifically?

"Me or him!"

Thats a no brainer to see how that will turn out.

Yes to boundaries in so much as "You will not sleep* with him in my bed while I'm in the smae room/house."

But a boundary with "Do not see him or I will walk away..."

...

Not many have the ability to walk away, the MLCer calls the bluff and now the LBS has no...bite.

I just see it as bad strategy.

Once the LBSer has been established as a changed and better person in the eys of the MLCer the boundary MIGHT work...they sure as should be in place if/when the MLC wants to 'work' on the relationship.

Hi Liss. : )



* sleep - come on really, you know what I mean?