The exs are only doing the same thing MWD tells us to do: GAL. The busier they stay, the less time they have to regret things. And usually, that comes in the form of staying busy with the OP. It's always easier when you have someone to give you that rush of emotion. But I think everyone eventually has that moment when they realize the grass isn't always greener, either because there are massive problems in their current R or because they feel they missed out on big stuff with their children. Kind of kills me to see the position one divorced person I know is dealing with it... he wants to be back with his family, so he incorporates himself in their lives, and his ex allows him to... and they want to be together, but they're both with OP, and SHE'S getting married this summer.
Me: 26 Ex: 27 Son: 5
Divorced: 3/2010 Each day is another opportunity to do it right.
