Looking for help with WAW

[Ken62]

mza8,

You never know which personality you are going to get from contact to contact. Last Wednesday my W was telling me what a rotten day she had and how she was finally thinking about getting IC and she initiated all the physical contact (2 hugs) and I was feeling really good. Then Friday morning she comes to the mediators to sign the papers and has an agenda that she wants more money for the furniture in the house and possibly for her new car. I basically tell her no and we go back and forth and it doesn't go well at all. I am able to give her a big fat check and get her credit cards from her and we are now financially independent! It just shows how you have to be prepared for anyting but the bottom line is to Act As If all the time so that hopefully you are NOT caught off guard.

I know that I sound strong in these posting, but believe me, IT IS HARD. Saying it is one thing, doing it is a whole different thing.

Thanks for the support and I hope and pray for you as well!

Ken