We didn't have children, so I grieve that loss as well. He was the one who never wanted kids and, being a teacher, I got my fill of kids at work...or so I thought. Now, I feel really bittersweet about that and feel like I got that stolen away from me as well. I just need some help in dealing with the losses, so many of them!!


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B