Please help with advice and support

[timehealsall]

It does totally suck. My heart goes out to you. Be strong.

Listen to these wonderful people here. They are so right about what they are giving advice about.

Your wife is still in a fog and it's going to take alot of tough love to get her to snap out of it. The quicker you do it, the quicker it'll be lifted. I know you're petrified of losing her. It feels "wrong" to do some of the actions that are offered, I feel the same with my WH, but anytime I've taken their advice, it's worked! The smallest things can yield a tremendous difference and response from your spouse.

Every day is a battle for me as well. I'm finding it hard coming to terms with the "why" even though I know the reasons.

Good luck and be strong!