Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Thanks Ken. Sometimes I feel like my W has a heart and sometimes not. For example today she emails me to talk about the house and a few other things we had discussed last time we talked. She had talked about removing me from her health insurance. She offered to keep me on it I paid my half. In another conversation she tells me she never said she would extend it beyond this month. I told her that I'm trying to be nice through this process and that's what she wants but she isn't being nice in return. I do not have access to health insurance right now if she takes me off of her plan. In her email today she tells me that she is taking me off at the end of the month. Unbelievable. Then she goes on to tell me some things she wants. Is she kidding me? She sounded more business like in her email today then when we spoke in person this past weekend. Sounds like she talked to someone on her end in the past day or two and she is back to being all business. The email wasn't all bad. She did just talk about the items we need to discuss, so I'm ok with that, no problem. I guess I'm just upset about the health insurance thing. We are still on the same car insurance and I offered to keep her on even if I buy the car from her. This way she can save some money.

This makes it difficult for me to try to do the right thing when she clearly is not. She still has dillusional thoughts that she isn't responsible for some of the joint bills. I honestly don't think that I can make any progress with her until this garbage is behind us and taken care of with the house, car and financials. I want to get this behind us but she sure is testing my patience but not working with me on some things. Maybe her and I both feel as though the other is cooperating. I don't know?

Ken, I wish you good luck to in your sitch. You sound strong and determined to continue to try to save your M. Good for you! That's a great positive attitude. I feel like I'm there too at times but other times I feel drained by all of this. I'll keep looking in on your sitch. I hope and pray for you and your sitch.