How (and who) to expose if OP is not married

[4luv]

"The boundaries are that he needs to

1. Start seeing someone about his sociopathy.
2. End ALL affairs ongoing
3. Commit to No Contact with OW - child or otherwise, he can arrange a supervised visit if thsi really matters to him
4. Attend family thereapy

That is a lot of work on his plate right there...

You put that in a letter, you email him the letter, you put your parents in the loop. The lettr is for him, you and your parents... you put that sucker in writing and send it, its giong to have a LOT more impact on YOU as well as him... and your parents will see that you are growing up and putting yoruself and your son first.

You change your cell number... you change your email account, you change all your contact info.

You give your H your father's email and tell him anything he has to say goes there.

And he's out until he starts to do some work on his part. Sincere work."

Working on this now Allen. The changing my number is easy. I am concerned because knowing my husband he will just use my NC letter as a challenge to dig his heels in deeper on his current stance. Again like a game. I am better off with no contact now and yes I will turn off my phone. I am going to use my mom's cell phone and give her my cell phone. Husband doesn't have her number. Hopefully my mom won't answer if he calls and she won't text him back because she doesn't know how to text :-)