For Sandi2

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Golf--be careful of the mediators. My Ex wanted to go that route but I knew because she was wrong I was in a position of strength to negotiate so why whould I settle for half? I mean, effectively, she got half of all liquid assets and the choice of the businesses that she wanted but I also kne she wouldn't choose certain businesses --even if they were valued higher--because she didn't know enough about them.


My ex is PO'd at me most days these days. Its kinda funny because I was a mess when this all hit and I was one bitter, nasty, mean, angry mofo. I still have my days of being PO'd but they don't happen nearly as much and she seems to be the one that is now starting to turn angry more often.

Overall I think (my friends seem to think I am defying the laws of physics)I am doing fine with all of this at this point. As I discussed with my mom--the irony of it all is the speed of the divorce probably makes the chances of ever reconciling at some point higher than had the lies and deceptiion and betrayal dragged out through a separation period. The other irony is I think there is a decent chance that my ex will at some point be interested in a conversation about a future and by the time she cares I am pretty certain I won't. Interesting stuff-funny how mother nature protects us.

I'll look up your sitch so i can get some background on it.

Thanks for the kind words.

S