For me there has always been two sides of this...saving myself and business. When it comes time to do business...I remove the emotional stuff...db'ing stuff...whatever and I go to business mode. Remember that I mentioned the "cost"....which is now more visible.
If it is costing your company...then you should be billing it. Know if your husband wants to cover the costs out of his pocket...fine. But at the moment it is costing you money.
It isn't controlling in mind...it is about business.
