NM, sticking my nose in here but IMO about a WAS moving back in:

MAKE HIM EARN IT.

Boundaries, NC with OW, End the A, Transparency, all that stuff.

This isn't about HIM NM it's about You & little NM and what's best for you both.


H: 44
W: 42
Married: 23 years
Bomb: 16/07/2009
PA Confirmed: 16/01/2010
Over it & working on ME: Feb'ish 2010