"I found out Mar 17. So I kicked him out b/c he couldn't choose between us and didnt want to stop contacting her. OUr baby was born July 6 (HE WANTED to start a family back in October!) and he has mentioned wanting to come back, thinking we should D, all over the place."

Newmama,

I went back and read your thread because it was similar in the fact that we were both pregnant at the time the bomb was dropped but I didn't kick H out immediately. QUestion, did you notice a dramatic change in your H wanting to come back after you kicked him out? I also saw that you kind of did a NC with husband initially after kicking him out...did that period of NC (except to talk about business) do anything or make an waves in husband deciding to work things out?

Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo