All I wanted was a chance to work on my marriage of 20 years, I didn't get that, either. Sounds like for so many of us, the ex made the decision and we must go on with life. I have no kids, so maybe it will be easier to go my way? I don't know yet, our divorce should be final next week.
Our house (my dream house) is sold and I have to move in a couple of months. Not quite sure where I'm going, but I had to get out of the *prison* in hopes of moving forward. Glad I found this thread, but I hope I'm not here 2 years later.:(
Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10