All I wanted was a chance to work on my marriage of 20 years, I didn't get that, either. Sounds like for so many of us, the ex made the decision and we must go on with life. I have no kids, so maybe it will be easier to go my way? I don't know yet, our divorce should be final next week.

Our house (my dream house) is sold and I have to move in a couple of months. Not quite sure where I'm going, but I had to get out of the *prison* in hopes of moving forward. Glad I found this thread, but I hope I'm not here 2 years later.:(


Me 55
H 49
Married 21 years
No kids
bomb 5/09
filed 7/09
divorced and moving forward 5/10

Life is all about Plan B