we cross posted Allen but once again you are right. I do feel good when husband calls and bad or worried when he doesn't. IT is VERY UNHEALTHY. I am going to get a new number. I think that is a good idea. Husband will still have my work cell number as I cannot change that number easily but I don't keep that cell on all the time.

I am just thinking back...I got all bent out of shape because husband didn't call me for two days after contacting me everyday since I moved out. He was testing my resolve and I let it get to me. Very unhealthy for my mood to depend on what someone else is doing...wow! Really eye-opener for me. No one should have that type of control over me...


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo