well I think some things will be easier when you do come home...cause right now your options of things you can do to help your marriage are VERY limited, so it will open up different avenues, but I think emotionally it might be more difficult (which what I am anticipating) because her rejection will be in person... but you know that. But it will help you get past just that state of unknowing, right now you just DONT know what it will be like when you come home and my counselor told me thats what i need to hang on to, that the only thing I DO know is that i DONT know what it will be like when i get home, so I need to take it day by day with how it is and not torture myself with the fear of life after my H gets back. I think that could help you as well, cope while you are still away. Everyday that you are still married is a good day
Me: 25 H:25 M: 2yrs T: 4yrs No Kids Bomb: 11 Feb 10 Newcomers Story