Husband is suppose to attend but not this first session. I wanted to meet with the FT first to check him out before sending husband. Husband asked me to find a FT in my area and said he would make the 6 hour drive. he said that he wanted to get help for himself so I suggested he talk to a FT. I am following Allen's advice of not pressuring him to go. I gave him the next appointment date and time but that is it. I will not remind him when the appointment comes up. The rest is his responsibility if he wants to go. I might text him the phone number of the therapists later on today but I don't want to seem to eager. Actually, I am not going to text husband...I will wait to give his info until husband ASK me to the contact info.

I am going to go the appointment with or without him however.


Me: 28
H: 32
1st marriage 4 both
1 1/2 year married
2gether for 9
1S: 6months
1stepson: 2yo