Separated, new baby, but still hopeful

[S.T. _I Made It!]

And I think I have gone from analyzing every tiny thing from facial expressions to tones of voice, to the time of day he sends his text asking about S...and am now noticing "bigger" things like acts of service, whether or not he lingers, how he took the day off on my birthday, and the number of text messages he sends. I JUST DOUBT THAT THE WH CHOOSES TO RECONCILE WITHOUT ANY WARNING! I think I will see some changes in his behavior and get 2x4s from friends on here for "mind reading" or "worrying too much about him" but how will I know if I don't observe these things? LOL

you definitely don't want to analyze everything for sure! it will drive you crazy. but you do want to take notice of things so that you can gauge your progress.

and you being absent from him can be okay, but you also want to get time in for him to witness your changes and see who you are. if your always gone, then that is a little more difficult to do.

sounds like your doing good...I will try to catch up, you move quick on your thread!