Talk About a Quick Divorce

[Golfgirl1]

I found you over here as well. Figured I might as well start looking at the "divorce" thread as that's where I'm headed as early as next week.

Our marriage was the envy of our friends, etc. until he walked out last June after the *speech* on May 23. I never saw it coming. Last summer I just tried to pick myself up off the floor. Then, I found this board which was a lifesave. I fought hard, but fighting the OW became too much. She works with my stbxh and is a better choice for him, I guess.

I was doing so well until stage #4 of grief hit a couple of weeks ago. Getting through it has been a challenge I didn't foresee. Luckily I found a divorce support group where I found understanding friends.

The financial piece scares the hell out of me, but I chose not to operate from fear and trust the universe will send me all I need. He and I had just reached the pinnacle of our careers when he decided to throw our life away.....

Wish I could think about dating again, but my heart is too broken. Maybe someday.:(