I find myself in a much better place than I was 4 years ago when I was bombed in May '06, but, I still have a long way to go. So many people here don't realize how lucky they were if their WAS punched out and just left. I'll say it then: you were very lucky.
I never would have thought that my X's race to divorce me and marry the OW wass a good thing, but I can see thata it was. At least I was set free, not left in limbo forever.
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Can anyone believe that I am still living with this woman? Fours years, 3 names that I know of, 2 police phone calls, one contempt of court, and, lest we forget, one load of laundry thrown in front of the litter box to get pee'd on by the cat.
You have the patience of a saint. Not sure I could have endured what you have.
"You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf." Jon Kabat-Zinn
